‘How to tell if a guy likes you’ is certainly one of the most interesting questions asked by women of any age. If you are in love, you are probably wondering if he feels the same about you. This is perfectly normal. Relationships have always been mysterious, even for people involved. This sounds funny, but the greatest mystery to you is probably your own relationship. This is normal, too. Most of us see things clearer if these things are happening to someone else. We are often able to give some good advice to others, but when it comes to our own relationship – we are clueless. This doesn’t mean that there is something wrong with you. This only means that once you involve your emotions, your common sense is no longer as powerful as it used to be.
It is great to have someone to talk to. You can always ask for an opinion, but it doesn’t really mean anything. The people you are asking for an advice can be close to both you and the man you are in love with, but no one can really know what is inside the man’s head. His mind remains a mystery, sometimes even to himself.
Does He Really Like You?
♦ As you probably know, being in love has very little to do with common sense. How many times have you been in love with a person without even knowing why? Sometimes the men we choose are so different from what we want for ourselves. Most of us know what we want and we also believe that we know what we don’t want to have in our lives. Some of us even have a kind of ‘prototype’ we are looking for. And then – we fall in love with someone who is not even close to what we thought we wanted before. Does it sound familiar? Yes. Does it sound reasonable? Well…no. That is what we are talking about here. Sometimes our actions are very different from our own expectations. People act differently and most of these actions are different from what we expected. That is why it is extremely hard to ‘read a man’s mind’ and tell if he really likes you. However, there are some indicators, and we will tell you about them.
How to Know if He Is Interested
♦ There are things he cannot control by simply using his will. These ‘unwilling’ actions are the most important ones. It is great if he is an honest person who will just tell you what he feels about you. But what if he is a shy guy, who cannot just speak up and say it loud? What if he is waiting for you to show your affection? You will know what to do if you pay some attention to the things he is doing while he is with you. Talking is great, but people sometimes say things they are not quite sure of (even though they believe in the words they’re saying in that moment). He can tell you many great things, and it is great to hear that, but his actions are what counts.
♦ If he calls you to hear your voice – that is almost a certain sign that he is interested.
♦ If he calls you to ask you how you’re doing, or to ask you for some advice – or just to tell you something – that is another sign he likes you. Moreover, talking about the things he cares for and asking for your opinion can actually mean that he sees you as a smart person he can talk to. And that is very important for any relationship.
♦ His gestures can also tell you much. Touching your hand and looking into your eyes can tell you a lot.
♦ If he really likes you, he will be there for you anytime. If you have any problem, he will help you solving it.
♦ He will listen to what you are saying and he will tell you his opinion. You will know that you are more than just another beautiful face.
♦ He will include you in activities he likes. He will introduce you to his friends and show you he wants you in his life.